in one’s birth chart is indicated by the Eighth House; the sign Scorpio;
its ruling planets, Mars and Pluto; the asteroids Eros, Frigga and Sappho;
the trans-Neptunian planet Zeus and the sign occupied by Venus, which
shows erogenous zones.
The sexual revolution of the 1960s taught
people that “free love” was not about freedom or love. It liberated
society from both the repression and responsibilities of the 1950s. Now,
in the 21st century, contemplative people are no longer willing to waste
sexual power on relationships lacking emotional intimacy or potential
commitment. Context has become imperative for meaningful sex.
ARIES enjoys the infatuation stage of
romance: passion, excitement and hurrying. However, it can become easily
bored in its relationship.
adores sensuality — slow, patient, tactile, silk sheets, beautiful
background music and dimmed colored lights.
GEMINI finds the most erogenous zone
to be the intellect, enjoying mental stimuli, but is capable of
CANCER wants to be nurtured and cared for,
not just physically gratified. It wants to be fed sumptuous feasts and
cuddled before and after intimate connections.
LEO wants to love and be celebrated, but it
must avoid being selfish or seeking partners to gratify ego.
VIRGO is analytical, wanting its lover to be
clean and predictably consistent. Sometimes reserved, it may hold back
from intimacy until its partner can meet its exacting standards.
LIBRA wants a relationship, not just
sex. Refined and artistic, it wants to be wooed, not seduced, so that it
feels like a loved person
instead of an object.
SCORPIO wants sex, not just a relationship.
It may need to differentiate between lust and love, physical desire and
choosing its companion intelligently, as it freely shares resources.
SAGITTARIUS could be the perennial bachelor,
enjoying sexual freedom. If spiritual sharing exists, sex can reach the
heights of tantra.
CAPRICORN is conservative and responsible
about birth control. It may need to get or give itself permission to enjoy
AQUARIUS is open to erotic explorations. Not
easily emotional in nuclear bonding, it may separate head from heart, and
body may get lost in between.
PISCES makes love from its soul, needing an
ethereal bond with its partner. If it uses drugs or alcohol, its
performance will be compromised, as it contracts into itself.
Emory holds degrees in psychology & education. She has taught at
American and Canadian colleges and has been a counselor since 1970. She
may be reached at PO Box 412, Waimanalo, HI. 96795. Phone 429-2411.